“If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they’re yours; if they don’t they never were.”
Good Morning everyone! Hope you all are having a great day! So, today I was going through the web reading quotes (If you didn’t know, I love reading quotes) and I came upon the quote “If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they’re yours; if they don’t they never were.” And, I thought should I agree or disagree with this quote?
This quote brings back a great memory… it was about my friends. It was just another morning of February 2017, when two of my friends were having constant conflicts and fights. They were simply unable to clear the misunderstandings between them and for some reason I felt that if I left our trio, then things would become better between them. I thought that if I am not there between them, then they’ll just have each other to talk to so that they can clear the misunderstandings between them. I felt that they were better of without me. So… I let them go and left because I really valued our friendship.
I went and explained everything honestly to them that day but, the situation ended up in all of us being in tears. They became really mad and angry at me wondering why I would make such a selfish and stupid decision.I then realized what a stupid mistake I had made, so I had to ignore them and avoid them that entire day. They tried their best to convince me to change my mind but I didn’t because I felt that maybe this would bring them closer and in a way it did because the next day where ever I went in my school to avoid them they always found me because they cared.
So… I gave in. My friends were always there for me, they didn’t give up on me and always had faith in me. Also, my decision had hurt my friends so much that it broke my heart to see them like this. They accepted me back with open arms.These friends, these moments and all those memories I’ve had with them are just SOME of the things which will always keep us together and bring us back. I feel very blessed to have such great friends.
Now, you’ll be wondering why I wrote such a long story…. let me tell you why, the thing is I agree with this quote but I also now believe that you should never give up on something that you can’t go a day without thinking about. This is a really nice quote and I feel that this quote in a way means that you can’t just force someone to like you, you have to give them the freedom to choose and only fate can determine if it was in our destiny for our friendship to last. If you agree or disagree with this quote please let me know in the comments section below.